“Since 1918, when world war I introduce test use IQ massly towards united state army candidates. Score IQ average at united State has increased 24 points and similar increase also recorded at developed countries whole world. increase reason range from nutrition better, more many children that have a time to finish higher education stage. existence game computer and riddle game that help children dominates crafts with vision of up to more the so small family member total, usually correlation with score height iq in children. from research result on a large scale towards teacher and parents shows that generation children now a more regular is experiencing emotion problem is being compared earlier generation. children now according to average is growing desolately and depression, angry easier and difficult regulated, nervous and inclined worried, more impulsive and aggressive ” word Daniel Goleman.
beginning 1970, top of protest student university the whole world defy war Vietnam, a librarian at a office us. Information agency beyond the sea get job's news. a student university group will threaten will burn the library. by accident librarian has several friends among student university that take outside threat. the reaction at first foolish appear or naive or both. he invites group use library for a few their meeting. he also invites America member country concerned with present to listen them, so roger dialog rather than confrontation. librarian demonstrate the skill as negotiator, or peace agency very great, can to read situation and that's one of [the] ability that be emotion intelligence (eq).
Follow Danah Zohar and Ian Marshall, IQ and eq apart or together, insufficient to explain overall human intelligence complexity and also imagination. Computer has High IQ, because can detect rule and follow it without wrong. Many animal has high EQ, because can identified situation that occupied and detect manner receives situation correctly. But computer and animal never ask why we have rule or situation, or does rule or that situation can be changed or repaired. leader want intelligence spiritual (SQ) that can streamline iq and eq. intelligence spiritual intelligence to face and break meaning problem and value, that is intelligence to laid behavior and alive a leader in meaning context broader and rich, intelligence to evaluate that action or has meaning is compared with another person
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spiritual values spiritual general, among others: truth, honesty, modesty, kepedulian, agreement, freedom, peacefulness, love, explanation, good charity, responsibility, care, integrity, taste believes, heart cleanliness, humility, troth, neatness, glory, courage, unitary, taste thanks god, joke, willpower, patience, justice, similarity, balance, sincere, knowledge, and persistence
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love affection is used mahatma Gandhi to lead 3 billion Indians people to get independence. he loves class Sudra that suffer, get them as family member, even he is willing bet soul struggles to wipe off caste difference and inspire Indians nation so that fair towards fellow. Gandhi like children and always plays with children padepo, he also likes to carry baby, kiss and coddle them like the heart fruit self. after pray evening children likes to surround it. after adult this children is difficult gets fact that this audience parents actually Indians independence father. he also loves enemy and believe that everyone basically good only still closed. he is of opinion, when does words not can to soften opponent, so at least plainness, humility, and honesty will make person touched so opponent will put moved on patience, then throw away far wrong idea and not will happen mutual will kill. besides doesn't want to kill enemy, gandhi’s opinion better self that suffer so that hostile both parties mutual compassionates. the death very ironic inform us that veracity and heart kindness not will can to help fellow keeps away pressure, colonial, mutual kill, hate and action sadist. country that gandhi loved cracking to slit, farmer that payed poor permanent. battle fire under the sun not lessened, luxury giant foot treads on the poor that groan. love that really there, only better part for another person and a little for self. such write kwok yuen ming in the book mahatma gandhi.
Mahatma Gandhi
Umar bin Abdul Azis be great leader with High intelligence spiritual. besides as caliph (country leader), also as religious teacher. he is a success leader in leads country and society. After Muhammad s. a. w. and Khulafaur rasyidin, Islam never Practised in its for pure and true, except at the government time. he is success change status quo in leadership revolution with change country is ”Heaven” in short time. country realize welfare, harmony and peacefulness. the secret lays in the personality enchantment as simple builder driver in eats, dress and riding. to do pilgrim. when he see his child out house feast day with very simple clothes even torn, even if clean, among children other that fiddle around with cheerful happy with their clothes is new, out his tear is because touched. When died only 17 diners, in his matter is wealthy noble breed. five diners for the shroud cloth, 2 diners for the cemetery soil and the rest 10 diners that's that distributed to 11 the sons. when people come to their house between two lights to talk individual problem, so in advance turn off lamp that financed with country money, and turned oil from the pocket self. this is to watch over don't until used people money for matter outside official importance, bot at all permitted. umar bin abdul azis dismiss ruthless official (oppress)s, return ownership that seized, defend the people is not treated fair at court, and return church to class christian. when distributing apple to the people. suddenly little the child takes that apple then is putted into to the mouth. umar even also pat hand takes apple at that the child mouth, so that the child cries and take to the mother. final the wife goes to market buys apple. at mosque, umar jog that man, spontaneous man says ”are you crazy? ”. umar answer ”No”. hear man word, angry the guard moves to strike it, but umar prohibit the guard ”that man is no doing anything, he only ask are you crazy? I answer No. ” umar be heart low caliph, never lie and fear to hereafter torment.
SQ make possible leader to be creative, change rule and situation. SQ give leader ability to distinguish, bound moral, ability accustoms stiff rule With comprehension and love with ability equal to see to when to love and comprehension comes the limit. Leader uses sq to distinguish which good and which unrighteous, with shadow possibility not yet materialized to dream and make leader low heart. SQ make leader genuinely intact intellectually, emotional and spiritual.
Taken from msuyanto.com
Translated by danang hamdani
Original Title : “Pemimpin yang Utuh”
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